You’ve taken the courses, read the books, done the workshops…
and still, when things are quiet, you feel a restlessness inside.
And when you can't source this hunger (after all, you lead a life of purpose and have the success to show for it), you question its persistence, deny its urgency, mistrust its sometimes-implausible nudges.
You might make it mean that you're flawed, might find yourself thinking :
Why can’t I be satisfied?
I help women like you come to the bone deep realization that this hunger is not a flaw, not a form of flightiness, not to be pathologized or diagnosed.
It is the universal initiation of the Modern Mystic.
This doesn’t mean you need to upend your life or run away to an ashram (though you might). It doesn’t mean you must leave your marriage, change careers, or renounce what’s familiar (though you may). It doesn’t even mean you secretly long for a life that looks wildly different from the one you’re living now (though maybe you do).
What it does mean is that nothing’s wrong with you—your restlessness is not ingratitude, your dissatisfaction is not a flaw, and it’s not a shinier success that’s calling.
It means that a fault line has opened between your hard-earned achievement and the depth of your inner world, and you feel it. The old strategies—striving, optimizing, performing—no longer make sense.
Kirstin held the HUGEST container for me so I could feel safe exploring so much. She kept gently guiding me forward, connecting the dots of where we’d been until my skin softened. I actually laid down during our first session, I felt so relaxed. She helped me snip the cords of ancient binds.
Coach with her. Your future self will thank you.
Marriage and Relationship Coach, Podcast Host, Author
Rebecca M.
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When you enter the portal of this work, you step into the sanctuary of your essence, activate the wisdom of womb and heart, transmute trauma into presence and safety, and alchemize shame into inner safety. You find your voice. You soften. You receive. You ignite.
Inspiration flows and your senses come alive. Most of all, you realize that your abiding hunger for more is not a liability at all, but an ancient through-line connecting you to the divine design of this cosmos and your particular place within it.
What my clients are saying:
Coaching with Kirstin helped me stop playing small. For years I felt that I wasn’t reaching my potential, that I was treading water. I was comfortable, but not fully happy, not truly thriving. My relationships suffered, my work suffered. My art and creativity suffered. With Kirstin’s help, I shifted from a life of lack to one of abundance. My outlook, my attitude, my work, and my relationships have all changed, and for the first time in my life I feel I’m on the right path.
- Jenny C., Writer, Artist
I am amazed by how incredibly generous and available Kirstin is. The ongoing support Kirstin offers between sessions is unlike anything I have ever experienced. She is available by text, by voice memo, by email. If something comes up during the day and I want her support, she's there. We don't just talk every other week; we’re in an ongoing conversation. I often send her a message not needing any reply, and she responds with insight that is incredibly helpful.
- Nadia C., Healer, Mindfulness Teacher, Poet, Writer
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Healing and shifting their shame-based patterns into radical presence and inner safety
Listening to their intuition and acting with courage to serve its calling
Embodying their Eros, expanding their pleasure, and learning to receive
Leading from a state of internal plenty, not lack
A spiritual practice that fosters wonder, inspiration, and reverence
Whole-body aliveness and magnetism that springs from living all-in
Freedom, born not of escape but of coming home.
In my clients’ words:
My experience working with Kirstin has cracked open my life in the most glorious ways. Coaching with her not only changed my life for the better, but has changed the lives of those around me as well. When you thrive, the effect radiates and your relationships flourish. I’ve not only experienced enormous growth myself, but I’ve witnessed it in friends who have also worked with Kirstin. I’ve seen them transform and grow and shine and it has been such a joy to witness. I’m forever grateful to Kirstin for helping me realize what I could become and for helping me get there, and I encourage everyone I know who needs this same kind of help to work with her.
- Jenny C. Writer, Artist
I have grown so much from coaching with Kirstin that I hardly recognize the person I used to be—stuck, unsure of herself, and with no idea how to make her dreams a reality. Kirstin got me moving! In our sessions, she identified the root of my challenges and helped me to think differently about them, so I could come up with my own solutions. Then, in between sessions, she was there for support and celebration. That combination of insight and availability made our coaching relationship transformational. I am now living the life I dreamed of: I have created a business I love and that supports my family, my relationships are thriving, and I am confident in my future.
- Allison E., Master Life Coach
Coaching with Kirstin has transformed my life; I know what it is to feel true joy now and am happier than I’ve ever been. Kirstin is not only a transformational life coach but also a poet, writer, and academic. She is one of the finest communicators I have ever met, and has helped me understand myself better and love and respect myself as I am. I have fully recovered my health and energy, and the underlying anxiety I lived with for over forty years is gone. I see magic and miracles every day. I am much better at meeting challenges with self-compassion, a positive attitude, faith, and optimism. I am happy and relaxed and my relationships with my family members have deepened and improved. For the first time in my life, I feel truly good in my skin.
- Rebecca H., Healer, Energy Worker, Author
Are you ready to come home? To step into the arrival that feels like your birthright?
I have grown so much from coaching with Kirstin that I hardly recognize the person I used to be—stuck, unsure of herself, and with no idea how to make her dreams a reality. Kirstin got me moving! In our sessions, she identified the root of my challenges and helped me to think differently about them, so I could come up with my own solutions. Then, in between sessions, she was there for support and celebration. That combination of insight and availability made our coaching relationship transformational. I am now living the life I dreamed of: I have created a business I love and that supports my family, my relationships are thriving, and I am confident in my future.
Allison E.
Master Life Coach
Kirstin is insightful, compassionate and wise. She has an amazing, uplifting energy that is both powerful and gentle, and a profound understanding of the human experience. She never failed to show up with 100% presence and dedication. The level of support she gave me both during and between sessions (in emails, text messages, and voice memos) was incredible. I experienced many benefits from my partnership with Kirstin: I’m more confident, more productive at work, make more money, and am happier. I’m more motivated to work towards my goals, while at the same time, more at peace with the journey. I’m accomplishing more, with less striving and less resistance. Perhaps most valuable of all, I learned to trust myself. I now connect with my feelings, listen to their guidance, and take responsibility for my emotional life. I’m able to trust my intuition and experience before the cacophony of outside voices, standards, expectations and comparisons. None of this was easy. It took months of hard work and emotional vulnerability which was at times very uncomfortable and challenging. But with Kirstin’s skillful reflection and partnership I always felt very safe, seen and supported.
Lach C.
Master Life Coach
Coaching with Kirstin has transformed my life; I know what it is to feel true joy now and am happier than I’ve ever been. Kirstin is not only a transformational life coach but also a poet, writer, and academic. She is one of the finest communicators I have ever met, and has helped me understand myself better and love and respect myself as I am. I have fully recovered my health and energy, and the underlying anxiety I lived with for over forty years is gone. I no longer live in fear. I see magic and miracles every day. I am much better at meeting challenges with self-compassion, a positive attitude, faith, and optimism. I am happy and relaxed and my relationships with my family members have deepened and improved. For the first time in my life, I feel truly good in my skin. My healing journey with Kirstin has also been a spiritual journey. Kirstin helped me understand that the spiritual “surrender” (awakening) I experienced is common when doing the work of deep healing. Kirstin was always affirming of the intuitions, synchronicities, miracles and manifestations that I experienced, and she is now mentoring me as I write the story of my spiritual and healing journey. Kirstin is very good at listening and brings to her coaching an exceptional ability to identify and articulate barriers and help her clients navigate through and beyond them. She is positive, affirming, compassionate, loving, and one hundred percent trustworthy. I will be forever grateful to Kirstin for her teaching and healing.
Rebecca H.
Energy Worker, Author
Working with Kirstin was life changing for me. I was ready to make changes, but didn’t know how. Kirstin met me where I was and then taught me how to grow. She did this with love and respect, guiding me to new ways of thinking and being, never making me feel that I was less than or that I needed to change. I gained so much confidence from my work with Kirstin. I went from worried about my life to feeling empowered and prepared to make my life what I want it to be. I encourage anyone who wants to grow in their personal life, business life, or relationships to work with Kirstin. I will be forever grateful for her guidance, her teaching, and her loving encouragement.
Lynn I.
Entrepreneur
Coaching with Kirstin helped me stop playing small. For years I felt that I wasn’t reaching my potential, that I was treading water. I was comfortable, but not fully happy, not truly thriving. My relationships suffered, my work suffered. My art and creativity suffered. With Kirstin’s help, I shifted from a life of lack to one of abundance. My outlook, my attitude, my work, and my relationships have all changed, and for the first time in my life I feel I’m on the right path. With her gentle but firm and intuitive approach, Kirstin hones in on what blocks you, and on what you need to work on to get past the hurdles that are keeping you from living your best life. Her warmth and generosity make you feel seen and understood, and she gives you the courage to be open, honest, and authentic so you can go all-in. She helps you to see in yourself what you may not have the objectivity to even realize is there. Her vast knowledge and resources equip you with what you need. My experience working with Kirstin has cracked open my life in the most glorious ways. Coaching with her not only changed my life for the better, but has changed the lives of those around me as well. When you thrive, the effect radiates and your relationships flourish. I’ve not only experienced enormous growth myself, but I’ve witnessed it in friends who have also worked with Kirstin. I’ve seen them transform and grow and shine and it was been such a joy to witness. I’ve forever grateful to Kirstin for helping me realize what I could become and for helping me get there, and I encourage everyone I know who needs this same kind of help to work with her.
Writer, Artist.
Jenny C.
Hiring Kirstin as my life coach has undoubtedly been the best investment I’ve ever made. As we began our work together I was battling an eating disorder, an addiction that had dominated my life for over 45 years. Though I was very successful professionally, I was numb, disconnected from my emotions and from my body. I felt unworthy of love and alone. As I opened my life to Kirstin, she poured herself into me. I shared with her my pain, my fears, my despair. She listened intently, without judgement, and responded with tremendous compassion. She provided me with tools to help manage my thoughts and challenge the self-condemning stories that I had come to hold as truth. She guided me down a path of self-discovery, self-acceptance, and self- love, the bedrocks of healing and living a conscious life. The changes have been astounding. I couldn’t be more grateful. I can proudly say that with Kirstin’s support I’ve been in recovery now for more than 18 months. More than anything, though, Kirstin has helped me cultivate love in my life and love of my life. I now feel my feelings and experience my emotions, the depth and breadth of which are astounding. I have never felt so alive. In many ways I feel as if I’ve been a witness to my own resurrection. As a coach, Kirstin is engaged and engaging, compassionate, and unwavering in her support. She is knowledgeable, intelligent, and has a wealth of life experience to draw on. She is attentive and has made herself available to me between our coaching sessions via text and email, responding promptly and thoroughly, offering her wisdom, encouragement and gentle kindness. As a poet, writer, and teacher she sees the world from a unique, refreshing perspective. As a human being, she is simply delightful. Working with Kirstin has had a profound impact on my life and is, hands down, the best investment I’ve ever made.
Roberta S.
Retired Corporate Executive
I’m delighted to enthusiastically recommend Kirstin as a coach. I can't say enough good things! My business has grown significantly while coaching with Kirstin, but beyond the financial rewards, the personal and emotional growth has been priceless. I have much more clarity about my goals and am far more grounded. In the time I’ve been working with Kirstin, I’ve had a book accepted for publication and I’m finishing my third book, a memoir. Unlike working with a therapist where, no matter how wonderful the therapist or healer is, there’s the underlying assumption of a problem that needs to be resolved, working with Kirstin is always about trusting my own inherent strength and wholeness and growing into greater strength and wholeness without there needing to be a problem. I am amazed by how incredibly generous and available Kirstin is. The ongoing support Kirstin offers between sessions is unlike anything I have ever experienced. She is available by text, by voice memo, by email. If something comes up during the day and I want her support, she’s there. We don’t just talk every other week; we’re in an ongoing conversation. I often send her a message not needing any reply, and she responds with insight that is incredibly helpful. I am now in my third contract with Kirstin and feel very lucky to work with her. She has an incredible range of skills—inner child work, trauma work, The Work of Byron Katie, dreamwork, somatic work, and the list goes on. And her generosity and insights are vast. She’s also an incredible, fun, spunky person: energetic, kind, unusual, full of life, someone I now think of as a friend as well as my coach. So, thank you so much Kirstin. I came to coaching hoping I would feel more aligned with my purpose, especially as my kids are going off to college. I am now in a steady, strong place, with the tools I need and a deep rootedness. I’m excited to see how the chapters continue to unfold, and to watch and admire Kirstin as she continues to grow and expand in her own life and work.
Nadia C.
Poet, Healer, Author, Mindfulness Teacher
Hiring Kirstin as my life coach has been the best investment I’ve ever made. I was in a dark place when Kirstin was recommended to me by a friend. The change I’ve experienced over the last six months has been profound. When we began our work together I was feeling tremendous guilt over things that were truly out of my control. This was affecting every aspect of my life, including my job, my marriage, and my ability to function as a mother. Kirstin helped me deeply and honestly investigate my patterns. I learned to become conscious of and quickly evaluate my thoughts and feelings before reacting. I learned to stop worrying and accept things that are out of my control. I was much like a flower blooming: my guilt dissolved, my marriage got better, and I became the mom that my boys needed. In addition, I finally figured out what I want / don’t want in life. I now have energy and purpose!
Penny B.
Wife, Mother, Lover of Life
Prior to coaching with Kirstin, my therapist expressed her opinion that coaching wasn’t truly therapeutic. After working with Kirstin for a year now, both as a one-on-one client and in a group setting, I completely disagree. I wasn’t happy a year ago, and I put myself last on the list when caretaking. I felt lost. I wasn’t alive. I was sleep-walking through life and turning in the direction that others told me to. While I made small movements each month with therapy, I have transformed my life while coaching with Kirstin and being part of her group mastermind: I am the authentic person I haven’t been since my childhood. Kirstin has helped me re-align to my life force, to my vital essence. I say yes now to pleasure and to what makes me feel alive. I feel like I am me, and I am expressing my unique and vital light in this world!
Molly M.
Education Director & Retreat Leader
Kirstin set me on a path of self-awareness—of noticing without reacting, seeing without judging, and holding myself accountable without beating myself up. She was encouraging, directive, and curious, and she helped me grow to be that way too. With her help, I soothed and connected with a version of myself that was clinging to old hurts and calling out for attention. I learned how to give myself what I really needed: mercy, boundaries, and an anchor in my day-to-day busy life. I’m a word person by nature and profession, and with Kirstin’s guidance I rewrote the narratives that constantly ran through my brain. I learned how to capture each thought in the present moment and make it work to my benefit. I learned where my greatest professional skills and interests lie and made room for new opportunities. With Kirstin’s help I also changed my tendencies to misuse sugar and zone out in unproductive internet loops. I made health and relationship adjustments that were, for the first time in my life, not punitive. None of this was easy, and there were times I would get sassy, but Kirstin—ever the professional—called my bluff when I needed it, held space for my growing pains, and provided endless outside resources—books, podcasts, and homework—to help me get the most of my coaching experience. With Kirstin I’ve made life-long changes; her lessons are not here and then gone; they are forever lessons and an investment in her coaching is the first step to the best version of you.
Christine Z.
Speech Pathologist, Entrepreneur
Kirstin is a game changer! When I began working with her, I had no idea how many obstacles I was throwing in the way of my own power and happiness. I was astonished to learn that many of my hardships were self-imposed. Without realizing it, I was relinquishing my power and living by the rules of others while ensnaring myself in an unending cycle of frustration and anger in my personal and professional lives. Through systematic thought and body work, Kirstin helped me notice when I was caught in the cycle and showed me how to take control of my thoughts and feelings. After each session, Kirstin gave me well-crafted, valuable homework assignments which served as follow-up exercises to clarify and reinforce what we’d discussed. I learned how to be accountable to myself and no one else. I no longer give away my power, but instead choose my thoughts and feelings. With my increased self-awareness and the tools Kirstin taught me, I have a strategy to dive into and move through feelings intentionally without fear or discomfort. I also learned the absolute importance of self-compassion and self-care. Thanks to Kirstin’s coaching, I now embrace my entire selfhood (strengths and weaknesses) and celebrate who I am with kindness instead of self-judgment. For the first time, I feel authentic, more fully comfortable in my own skin, and best able to meet my own needs. In sharing my newfound insight with my son, he has also benefitted from Kirstin’s expertise. One of my favorite things about working with Kirstin is her availability. The text messaging that she offered between our sessions was an enormous benefit. I felt that she was always there for me, which truly anchored me through this entire process. I now see the world as a kinder place and I am eagerly “all in.” I will be forever grateful to Kirstin for her enormous impact on my quality of life. THANK YOU KIRSTIN!
Shelly V.
Professor of Music, Opera Singer
With Kirstin’s guidance I learned to replace self- judgement with celebration and trust. In a very practical way, I developed a reverence for my present and future self in the context of diet and exercise. Through introspection, meditation, and journaling, which Kirstin taught and encouraged throughout my coaching experience, I have grown to thrive within the seeming paradoxes of stillness and discovery, of distinctness and belonging, of contentment and growth, of exploration and home, of careerhood and motherhood, of empowerment and vulnerability. And what a magnificent place it is, my friends. If you are looking for a safe space with one who will share a genuine and loving curiosity about your story and push you to discover your own authentic potential, look no more. You won’t regret investing in you.
Jenni T.
Midwife, Nurse
Working with Kirstin came at a moment when I felt lost, disconnected from myself, and unsure how to move forward. From the very beginning, she met me with a level of presence, care, and insight that made it feel safe to be honest about what I was actually struggling with. Kirstin helped me see patterns I had been living inside for years and gently guided me back to trusting my own inner voice, intuition, and lived experience. Over time, I stopped trying to “fix” myself and began to feel more grounded, confident, and aligned in how I show up in my work, creativity, and relationships. This work changed how I relate to fear, uncertainty, and myself, and I’m deeply grateful for the clarity and self-trust I’ve gained through coaching with Kirstin.
Marcus W.
Market Conduct Examiner